Rethinking Weight: A Conversation with Dr. Lindsey Henderson
The Burden of BMI
Dr. Lindsey Henderson, a family medicine and weight loss management specialist at Sanford Health, shared her candid thoughts on the challenges of discussing weight in a recent episode of the podcast “Her Kind of Healthy.” One striking sentiment she expressed is her disdain for the Body Mass Index (BMI) scale, highlighting how it often fails to provide an accurate assessment of an individual’s health. “I really wish we could get rid of it,” Dr. Henderson remarked, underscoring that weight is not merely a number.
A Lifelong Journey
Weight is not a fleeting thought; it permeates our lives and can shape our self-image from a young age. Dr. Henderson pointed out the impact of early dieting experiences. Patients often recount how they were put on diets in childhood, with lingering effects. These experiences shape our perceptions and behaviors regarding weight throughout our lives. Importantly, Dr. Henderson notes that weight is not solely the result of personal choices. It is a complex interaction of genetics, metabolism, hormones, behavior, and environment.
A Shift in Perspective
Dr. Henderson emphasizes the need to reframe weight as a chronic medical condition rather than a sign of personal failure. Many individuals navigate weight loss journeys with the backdrop of societal expectations and personal histories. Recognizing that our bodies evolve as we age is vital. Goals must reflect our current realities, focusing not on an unattainable past but on achieving sustainable changes. Dr. Henderson advocates for a holistic approach, considering various factors that contribute to weight management.
The Four Pillars of Weight Management
In her discussions, Dr. Henderson outlined what she calls the four pillars of weight management:
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Behavior and Mood: Emotions play a critical role in our eating habits. Understanding emotional triggers can help avoid patterns of emotional eating.
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Diet: The term “diet” often carries a negative connotation. However, Dr. Henderson asserts that a sustainable diet emphasizes whole foods, lean proteins, and fiber-rich vegetables. It should not feel like punishment but rather an integral part of a fulfilling life.
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Activity: The concept of physical activity can be overwhelming. Dr. Henderson encourages starting where you are rather than where you think you should be. Small, sustainable changes in activity levels can yield significant benefits over time.
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Medications: While they have gained notoriety in recent years, medications for weight management must be approached cautiously. Dr. Henderson discussed various options, including long-standing medications like phentermine, and newer injections like Wegovy and Zepbound, which have shown effectiveness. However, she warns that these are not short-term solutions but rather long-term commitments.
Medications and Their Role
Dr. Henderson offered insights into the rising popularity of weight loss medications, particularly injections. She explained that while these can be beneficial, they need to be used judiciously. The appeal lies in their ability to suppress appetite and reduce the “food noise” people often experience—constantly wondering what to eat next. However, she remains cautious about potential side effects, especially muscle loss, and emphasizes that they should not be perceived as miraculous fixes but part of a broader strategy that includes lifestyle changes.
The Importance of Realistic Goals
One of Dr. Henderson’s core messages is the significance of setting realistic and personalized goals. Each person’s journey with weight is unique. It’s essential to focus on incremental improvements rather than drastic changes. Celebrating small victories—such as improved energy levels, mood, and the fit of clothes—can be as crucial as reaching a particular number on the scale.
Navigating Diet and Activity
Dr. Henderson’s perspective on diet promotes the idea that it should not dominate daily life. Emphasis should be placed on maintaining a balanced intake of nutrients while still enjoying food without guilt. Hydration and the frequency of dining out are also considerations in fostering a healthier lifestyle.
Physical activity plays a key role in managing weight but should be approached based on individual capabilities. The goal of 150 minutes of organized activity per week can seem daunting, but starting small and gradually building up to that target can foster lasting habits.
The Personal Aspect of Weight Management
Ultimately, Dr. Henderson underscores the importance of self-care in the weight management journey. Finding time for yourself, prioritizing health, and navigating the ups and downs of this process is essential. Supporting each other in these endeavors can make the journey less isolating.
This engaging discussion with Dr. Henderson reveals the complexity surrounding weight management and underscores the need for compassion and understanding in addressing this multifaceted issue. Through open conversations and personalized strategies, individuals can take meaningful steps toward living healthier lives, recognizing that success is unique to each person.
For more insights and topics discussed in this podcast, check out “Her Kind of Healthy” on platforms like Apple and Spotify. Be sure to explore additional episodes that delve into various aspects of wellness and women’s health provided by Sanford Health.

